The custom of offering a hand on one knee is part of a centuries-old tradition that is associated with showing respect and devotion. Although today we perceive this gesture as romantic, its roots go back to distant history, where it was a sign of humility and respect. According to Mental Floss, people would bend down to one knee as a sign of nobility and respect for older or more influential people, writes IZ.
The tradition originated in the Ancient World, where greeting by bending down to the knee was customary and considered honorable for all social classes. It is known that this practice existed in Persia, where it was called “proskynesis”. According to historical evidence, when the difference in social status was great, bowing to the ground became the most expressive way to respect a higher person. At that time, even the kings themselves needed recognition of their status through such a ritual.
Many centuries later, this custom became popular among European knights, who during the Middle Ages began to use kneeling as a sign of their devotion to the ladies with whom they had a serious relationship. Such customs became an integral part of the knightly culture, which acquired a romantic meaning over time. During this period, the first images began to appear where a man offered his hand to a woman while standing on one knee, which became a symbol of loyalty and boundless devotion.
From the middle of the Middle Ages, this gesture gained even greater significance. Knights who made their proposal to ladies, who were often already married, on their knees confirmed that they were ready to serve them as their masters. This tradition has passed through the centuries, and today we see young people honoring this historical custom, offering their hand and heart to their loved ones during important moments in life.
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