Dirty talk is an exciting way to improve your sexual connection with your partner. But if you haven't done this before, you're probably worried. Luckily, with a little practice, you'll become a master at sex talk that will drive a man crazy. Where to start? What exactly should you say? Ahead of you are tips on how to properly conduct dirty conversations with your partner.
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And further. WomanEL invites you to relax a little. Dirty talk is not an exact science, and navigating it has more to do with how comfortable you are than how much you know about it.
What is dirty talk?
Dirty talk is when someone uses lewd, provocative or explicit language to increase the sexual atmosphere or arousal between two people, and it is often used before and during intimate acts. Relationship expert Melissa Cook told PureWow.
She emphasizes that this practice is a great way to improve communication and do wonders for sexual pleasure. But it's also a very personal thing. It requires open and honest communication about desires, interests, and boundaries in order to be enjoyable for everyone involved.
She emphasizes that this practice is a great way to improve communication and do wonders for sexual pleasure. But it's also a very personal thing. It requires open and honest communication about desires, interests, and boundaries in order to be enjoyable for everyone involved. It should be natural, not forced.
How to have dirty conversations with your partner: first steps
Sexologist Pepper Schwartz and marriage therapist Emily May shared tips to help you master this art:
- Start with softer, more thought-provoking language to create a comfortable environment and give you the opportunity to gauge your partner's reaction. “I've been thinking about you all day” is a great opening line.
- Ask a question. In the heat of the moment, ask your partner to tell you, as passionately as possible, what he would like to do to you—or if he would like you to describe what you would like to do to him.
- Try writing a lewd text message.
- Talk about your fantasy during a phone call. Describe the situation and how it made you feel and what you would do.
- Prepare some planned phrases. While spontaneity is good when it comes to erotic conversations, planned phrases can be helpful in the beginning when you don't know what to say.
How to talk dirty to your partner: examples
Dominance/submission play:
- You're all mine tonight.
- I am completely at your mercy this night.
User Guide:
- I like it when you…
- You can do this with me?..
Role play:
- I have been naughty and deserve punishment.
- What can I do to thank you for saving my house?
Give compliments:
- Your strong arms excite me.
- I can’t stop looking at your sexy hard nipples.
Individual words:
- Stronger.
- Yes.
- There.
Memories:
- Remember when we made love in the car, I want it again.
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