The famous Ukrainian blogger and interviewer Ramina Eshakzai answered one of the most common questions from her followers – whether she plans to become a mother while in a relationship with a military man, writes WomanEL.
In her blog, Ramina admitted that she never had a desire to have children, and this position has remained unchanged since adolescence. However, she admits that in the future she may adopt a child.
Maybe one day I will want to have my own child, but my vision has not changed since I was 16. I will either not have my biological children at all, or something will change. Currently, the idea is: someday I will adopt a child,
Eshakzai noted.
She also emphasized that her partner shares these views, because this topic is always discussed at the beginning of a relationship.
At the beginning of every relationship, I ask fundamental questions that influence the subsequent choice of a partner. If a person wants a big family and children, we will not be able to be together, because I have never dreamed of a big family and children. My partner agrees with me in my views. I will not give birth for someone. I have my own vision of life. If I want to have a child and I am ready for this responsibility, of course. But it should be my desire, and not because my partner asked me very much,
the presenter commented.
Ramina noted that the decision to have a child should be her own conscious choice, and not the result of pressure from her partner. She added that she would never give birth “for a man” unless she herself wanted to.
Ramina Eshakzai recently met with NATO leaders in Brussels.