Breaking up is always a difficult and emotionally charged process, URA-Inform reports.
But sometimes, even after the final conversation, there’s a feeling of incompleteness. You notice strange activity on social media, receive random messages, or hear about yourself from mutual friends. Perhaps these aren’t just coincidences. Astrologers, psychologists, and relationship experts agree: If you notice certain signals, it may be a sign that your ex is still not over you and wants to come back.
Here are four key signs to look out for.
1. He or she maintains constant contact – even without a reason
If your ex regularly texts, calls, or finds excuses to contact you (even if it’s under the guise of “hi, just remembered”), this is the first warning sign. Especially if the initiative comes exclusively from him/her, and not from you. Such messages may seem harmless, but behind them there is often a desire to test your reaction and re-establish an emotional connection.
What this could mean:
Your ex misses you, feels emotionally attached, and is looking for a way to get back into your sight.
2. Follows you on social media and actively responds
Likes on old photos, comments on stories, “random” views – all this can indicate that the person is not indifferent. Especially if he was not a particularly active user before. When an ex starts to show himself more often on the Internet, this can be a way to remind about himself.
What this could mean:
He (or she) is bored, but does not dare to write directly – he (or she) tries to attract attention passively.
3. Mutual friends pass on “news” from him/her
If suddenly mutual friends start mentioning your ex in conversation, telling you how he lives, what he does, what his plans are, it is most likely not a coincidence. Very often people use this method to “subtly” remind you of themselves or find out how you will react to certain information.
What this could mean:
The ex deliberately leaves “traces”, hoping for your reaction and, possibly, contact from you.
4. He/she mentions the past and shared memories
If your ex-partner regularly returns to memories in conversations – “do you remember how we…”, “it was cool back then” – this is most likely not just nostalgia. Mentioning significant moments is an attempt to warm up old feelings and remind you of the closeness that was between you.
What this could mean:
He hopes that you also miss those times and want to bring everything back.
What to do if you notice these signs?
If you yourself are not against restoring the relationship, it may be worth talking honestly and openly. However, if you have already emotionally let go of the past, you should not succumb to manipulation or the illusion of “everything will be different.”
The main thing is to listen to yourself. Relationships from the past can become a new beginning, but only if both are ready to change and move forward, and not return to old scenarios.
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